{"id":65137,"date":"2019-04-14T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2019-04-14T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kentyasam.com.tr\/wp\/?p=65137"},"modified":"2019-04-14T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"2019-04-14T00:00:00","slug":"sevgili-kime-denir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kentyasam.com.tr\/wp\/2019\/04\/14\/sevgili-kime-denir\/","title":{"rendered":"Sevgili kime denir?"},"content":{"rendered":"Bir dakikas\u0131 seni d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden ge\u00e7meyendir sevgili. \r
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Nerde oldu\u011funu, ne yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, ne yedi\u011fini hatta bazen ne dedi\u011fini bile merak edendir. \r
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Uykusunda bile sana sar\u0131l\u0131p yatand\u0131r sevgili. \r
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G\u00fcn\u00fcn bir saatinde, en yo\u011fun an\u0131nda bile kokunu duyabilendir. \r
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Aramadan duramayan, s\u00f6yleyecek s\u00f6z\u00fc olmasa bile sosyal medya da ya WhatsApp?ta \u00e7evrimi\u00e7i g\u00f6r\u00fcp senin varl\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan mutlu oland\u0131r. \r
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Birlikte film izleyebildi\u011fin, seni g\u00f6rmek i\u00e7in dakika sayan ve her \u015fey den \u00f6nemlisi elini tutup sokakta pervas\u0131zca “Bu benim sevgilim” gururu ile gezebilendir sevgili. \r
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Seni herkesin \u00fcst\u00fcnde tutan, her zaman de\u011ferli hissettiren, a\u00e7\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kollamayan ve aksine sana her f\u0131rsatta bir \u015fey katman\u0131n hazz\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015fayand\u0131r. \r
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“Ben” de\u011fil, “biz” kavram\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcmseyen, \u00fcz\u00fclmenden ve incinmenden korkan, teni tenine de\u011fdi\u011finde kavruland\u0131r sevgili. \r
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T\u00fcm \u015fark\u0131 s\u00f6zlerinde seni arayan, ho\u015fland\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir \u015fey ile kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda seninle de payla\u015fmadan duramayan, g\u00f6zlerin g\u00f6zlerine de\u011fince i\u00e7i eriyecekmi\u015f gibi oland\u0131r sevgili. \r
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Tam bu y\u00fczy\u0131l\u0131n sevgilileri sanki, de\u011fil mi? \ud83d\ude42 Bizler t\u00fcm bu g\u00fczellikleri ya\u015fad\u0131k belki, ama \u015fimdiki gen\u00e7lerin ne kadar \u015fans\u0131z oldu\u011fu ortada. G\u00fcn\u00fc birlik ili\u015fkiler bir yana, \u015fimdilerde ya\u015fanan sevgili olma kavram\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7ler ac\u0131s\u0131 durumu herkes\u00e7e malum olsa gerek. \r
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Can\u0131 istedi\u011fi zaman istedi\u011fini arayanlar, payla\u015fmay\u0131 bilmeyip bencilce ruh haline g\u00f6re partner d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen gen\u00e7ler. A\u015fktan haberi olmayan, sevmeyi bilmeyen, s\u00fcrekli t\u00fcketen insanlar. \u00c7alan telefonlar\u0131 g\u00f6rmezden gelen, can\u0131 isteyince d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f yapan, keyfine ve ruh haline g\u00f6re payla\u015f\u0131m\u0131 se\u00e7enler… \r
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Bir de orta ya\u015f gruplar\u0131 var tabii ki. Onlar da ayr\u0131 bir boyut. \r
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Var olan d\u00fczenleri bozulmas\u0131n, ama istedi\u011fim insan da benim olsun diye hayata bakanlar. \r
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T\u00fcm zorlu \u015fartlar\u0131na ra\u011fmen, sadece gururu ve mutlulu\u011fu i\u00e7in d\u00fczenini bozan g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc karakterli insanlar varken, ne yardan ne de serden ge\u00e7emeyip, hayat\u0131n\u0131 bu \u015fekilde idame ettirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanlar. \r
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Cesur olamayanlar ve hayat\u0131 bencilce ya\u015fayanlar. \r
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Var ise e\u011fer \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n arkas\u0131na s\u0131\u011f\u0131nanlar. \r
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\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor vesilesi ile duygu s\u00f6m\u00fcr\u00fcs\u00fc yap\u0131p hem kendinin, hem e\u015flerinin, hem \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131 ask\u0131ya alanlar. \r
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D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceli ve vefal\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcp, istedikleri hayat\u0131 da e\u015f zamanl\u0131 ya\u015fayarak asl\u0131nda korkak, g\u00fc\u00e7s\u00fcz ve bencil olanlar! \r
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En zararl\u0131 grup da i\u015fte bu hayattan ne istedi\u011fi belli olmayanlar olsa gerek. \r
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\u0130ster kad\u0131n ister erkek olun teredd\u00fctleriniz varsa, resmi daha ba\u015ftan tam g\u00f6remiyorsan\u0131z mutlaka sonu bellidir. \r
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“Sevgili” kavram\u0131, insana hayat\u0131 g\u00fczel payla\u015fmay\u0131 sa\u011flayan bir unsur oldu\u011funa g\u00f6re niye payla\u015famad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ya da payla\u015f\u0131rken acabalar ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z biri ile yola devam edesiniz ki?\r
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B\u0131rak\u0131n gitsin!\r
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G\u00fczel payla\u015f\u0131mlar ile kal\u0131n…

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Bir dakikas\u0131 seni d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden ge\u00e7meyendir sevgili. Nerde oldu\u011funu, ne yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, ne yedi\u011fini hatta bazen ne dedi\u011fini bile merak edendir. Uykusunda bile sana sar\u0131l\u0131p yatand\u0131r sevgili. […]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[52],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kentyasam.com.tr\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65137"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kentyasam.com.tr\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kentyasam.com.tr\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kentyasam.com.tr\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kentyasam.com.tr\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=65137"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kentyasam.com.tr\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65137\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kentyasam.com.tr\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=65137"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kentyasam.com.tr\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=65137"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kentyasam.com.tr\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=65137"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}